One of the classic negotiating mistakes is failing to account for changing circumstances. By default, when trying to work out way through a negotiation, especially a conflict, we want to go back to where we were ‘before we got into this mess’ (status quo ante bellum, for those of us who like to use the […]
Negotiation Theory
Getting Past Yes, Revisited — 7 tips
In a previous post I spoke about negotiating past the agreement at hand. As promised, here are some things to consider: Does my counterpart’s opinion of myself or the deal matter to me? Unless you are buying a knickknack souvenir on vacation (in which case, feel free to skip this post altogether and enjoy your […]
Getting past Yes
Getting to Yes and Getting Past No are two books on negotiation I find myself recommending to clients, friends, family (and just about everyone else). They’re easy to follow, yet provide game-changing insights to the would-be negotiator. If you haven’t yet read them, amazon.com is your friend. I mention this because what I’m seeing more […]
Recent Interview
Is being poorly quoted worse than being misquoted? We gave an interview with a very well-respected journalist who was kind enough to visit us. The title of the interview itself is misleading, as no one ever talked about mediation being vital to arbitration, and I feel the part about tourism was oversimplified to the point […]
Seven Deadly Sins of Negotiation
…and Seven Contrary Virtues to see you through (This post deleted because, well…. it sucked. While there were a few good points made (if I do say so myself), forcing it to conform to an artificial framework (7 Sins v 7 Virtues) made it come off forced and artificial. Lesson learned! — Joseph)